Synchronicities and Kaleidoscope Love

December 17, 2025
Emmanuel F. Silan, PhD

Some friends and clients asked me, “why does it seem like synchronicities, meeting soulmates, and the strongest event of all, miraculous events, happen infrequently in people’s lives across time and space?”

My best guess is that when these seemingly infrequent experiences occur, our essence – our soul – are able to touch the unknowable fields of the divine, where life-oriented energies predominate.  

The fields of the sublime, and, perhaps, the world of the infinitesimal fraction of the mind of God.

And when it does, our psyche recoils from such a magnificent presence. It felt overwhelmingly way too much, too quickly.

Very few human beings are prepared for such a grand and mystical experiences.

So, we return to our known world, the world of the mortal and the mundane. Yet I suppose that that there are those among us who are more reflective of the events and experiences that happen to us.

And when they experience such mind-bending, meaningful events – they intentionally use them as balms and energy sources for their souls, their psyche, that last for the rest of their lifetime.

I invite all of you to be innocent once more and explore your world of synchronicities populated by your “soulmates,” and realize that every day is an experience of the sublime.  

Where miracles are found in big things and small.

Miracles that are felt as love, and comes in different forms and expressed in different ways. There are too many different forms that love wears.

Some fit just right, some don't, some too unbelievable to simply describe, and a rare few are stories of "forever."

Love that flows with the ebb and tide of life, in the spaces of the beating of your hearts, through endless hazy, starry nights.

And if you, we, ever feel, at times, to find fault in our stars, for the fate that denies,

I would say:  

"I will always look for you in all my different lifetimes, in all the different worlds."

May you finally experience the love and care that your heart has dreamt for you,

a long, long time ago.

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About the author

Emmanuel F. Silan, PhD

NLP Coach and Counselor/ Human Behavior and Communications Specialist/ NLP Master Trainer (IN) and Coaching Master Trainer (ICI) / Organization Development Consultant/ Highly Experienced Team Building Facilitator/ Certified NLP Instructor and Master Practitioner/ has MA in Instruction Development and Technology/ PhD in Organization Development/ and currently taking Master in Counseling Psychology at  Ateneo de Manila University.